Marriage Intensive ER {Best 2025}
The problem is couples have unresolved resentments that prevent emotional and physical intimacy. Once that pattern becomes entrenched, hopelessness sets in, conflicts increase, and more resentments occur, creating a vicious cycle.
I know how this feels because my marriage used to be the same. I used to have a lot of resentments and felt out of love with my wife. However, I also know how it feels to heal those resentments and fall back in love and now I've helped thousands of couples do the same.
The solution is my ER marriage intensive!
In it, I will teach you step by step how to heal your resentments and rekindle your love in 90 days.
Are you tired of feeling like roommates?
Are you ready to go all in?
Join my most comprehensive resource ER to fill your marriage with hope, love, and intimacy.
Classes are Tuesday nights from 5-6:30pm MST. The next ER cohort begins 1/28/25!
What is a marriage intensive?
A marriage intensive is a concentrated approach to marriage counseling that helps couples make significant progress in less time by helping them work through their resentments.
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If you're ready to guarantee your spot in the next ER cohort starting 1/28/25, enroll below!
4 Ways To Know If You Need A Marriage Intensive
1-You're feeling hopeless because change is not happening.
2-You're feeling alone because of unresolved resentments, walls, and needs not being met.
3-You're feeling lost because you don't know where to start to improve things.
4-You're feeling numb from the combination of feeling hopeless, alone, and lost.
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4 Reasons To Enroll In A Marriage Intensive
1-You'll learn concrete tools and skills to improve your marriage.
2-You'll receive training on how to build a successful marriage just like you've received training on how to become successful in your career.
3-You'll experience quick progress because marriage intensives provide concentrated support.
4-You'll resolve your resentments and rekindle your love so you can start feeling like lovers rather than roommates.
What are other couples saying about the ER Marriage Intensive?
"It was so informative. Learning about the seasons of marriage was very helpful. I would recommend this to anyone, no matter what season you are in." N.D.-previous attendant
"This was an amazing experience for me and my husband. Was easy to follow, entertaining and educational. We will forever use the tools we learned from this intensive. Our marriage wasn’t “in trouble” we just wanted a “refresh” after 11 years together and 5 years of marriage. Highly recommend it to any couple. It will change your marriage if you adopt the tools!" S.N.-previous attendant
"My husband and I were able to receive tips and encouragement from the comfort of our home. I appreciate you giving personal examples of challenges in your marriage. It helped us to connect with you, allowing us to open our hearts and mind. You were transparent and relatable. The format was easy to understand. Dr. Wyatt, thank you!" B.R. previous attendant
"My husband and I have a good, solid marriage, and we want to keep it that way! We try to attend marriage intensives every few years! We love working on our marriage and showing our kids how amazing marriage can be! Thank you Dr. Wyatt for a great resource for my husband and I! Loved it!" R.C.-previous attendant
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What makes our ER Marriage Intensive Unique?
1-Led By A Licensed Psychologist
ER is led by Licensed Psychologist Dr. Wyatt who has a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology with over 20 years of experience in private practice working with couples. In addition, his own marriage has been to the brink of divorce and back so he help couples from both a personal and professional perspective. Other intensives are often led by coaches who aren't as educated and can't relate to couples personally.
2-Live Teaching
It's one of the only programs providing live teaching each week for couples to gain maximum knowledge and interaction. The ER class is Tuesday nights from 5-6:30pm MST with Dr. Wyatt. Most programs are recorded videos couples must watch on their own.
3-Skills Focus
The ER Marriage Intensive trains couples on concrete tools to rebuild their relationship from the ground up. Other intensives only focus on processing feelings, which often leaves couples unclear on how to move forward.
4-Three Month Program
ER is a 3 month program to help couples make deep and lasting transformation. Other intensives are only 2-3 days, making it much more difficult for couples to retain their progress long-term.
5-Multiple Levels Of Support
The ER Marriage Intensive is highly effective because it combines live weekly teaching through Zoom with Dr. Wyatt for skill development, weekly individual sessions with one of his master coaches to resolve your resentments, and access to Dr. Wyatt's live marriage conference in Florida, Colorado, or Texas. Other intensives only provide one level of support.
6-Post Program Support
A final piece that makes ER unique is you'll receive three months of post program support for FREE to ensure long-term change. During this time you'll have access to all the material learned in the course for continual review, live weekly group calls with Dr. Wyatt for ongoing mentorship, and access into Dr. Wyatt's private FB group with other ER alumni for community.
What will you gain in the ER Marriage Intensive?
1-You'll learn how to increase your commitment to marriage.
This will also include understanding the seasons of marriage, how marriage is a living organism, and how marriage is the ultimate refinement tool.
2-You'll learn how to own your part to the vicious cycles in your relationship to improve your communication.
Enough of the blame game. You'll learn how you're contributing to the issues in your relationship and how to take ownership for those behaviors. You'll also learn an effective tool to give and receive constructive feedback without defensiveness.
3-You'll learn how to share power on decisions to feel like a team.
Sharing power means both you and your partner have an equal voice on all decisions that impact your marriage. Wouldn't that be nice? You'll learn skills to facilitate decision making so both you and your partner feel heard.
4-You'll learn how to resolve resentments and conflicts.
Nothing else goes well in your marriage when there are active resentments. Therefore, you'll learn tools for resolving your resentments and conflicts. You'll learn the tools in ER, then in your individual sessions with your master coach you'll work through your resentments one by one.
5-You'll learn the keys to emotional intimacy.
Emotional intimacy is a top need usually for at least one partner. But how do you develop it? What does emotional intimacy even mean? You'll learn the answers to these questions along with concrete tools to become more emotionally connected and supportive of one another.
6-You'll learn how to maximize sexual intimacy.
Regular sexual contact is important for a healthy marriage, regardless of your libido, because it's important for emotional and physical bonding. You'll learn keys to enhancing this area of your marriage.
7-You'll learn how to stay in love.
Couples often think if they fall out of love the relationship is over. It's not. It's only over once both partners give up. The goal is learning how to stay in love and you'll learn the most effective tool for doing so.
Who teaches the ER Marriage Intensive?
I'm Dr. Wyatt Fisher and I'm the creator of the ER marriage intensive. I have a Master's and Doctorate in Clinical Psychology, I'm a Licensed Psychologist, and I've been in private practice since 2004 specializing in marriage counseling in Boulder, CO. I'm also the author of the Total Marriage Refresh marriage book and developer of the Keep the Glow couples app. To learn more about me click here.
LISTEN TO MY MARRIAGE PODCAST HERE!
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If you're ready to guarantee your spot in the next ER cohort starting 1/28/25, enroll below!
What will you receive in the ER Marriage Intensive?
1-You'll receive 12 weeks of 90 minute live teaching with Dr. Wyatt on how to build a successful marriage from the ground up. Classes are Tuesdays from 5-6:30pm MST and are recorded in case you miss any.
2-Seventy-one page pdf with all material from the classes included.
3-Eight 45-minute sessions with your master relationship coach to help you and your partner resolve your resentments.
4-FREE tickets to Dr. Wyatt's live marriage retreat in FL, marriage retreat in CO, or his marriage retreat in TX.
5-Three months of FREE support after ER is over, which includes access to the 12 classes for continual review, weekly group calls with Dr. Wyatt for ongoing mentorship, and access into Dr. Wyatt's private FB group with other ER alumni for community. You'll also have the option to continue the support once the free 3 months is over for $99/month.
How much is the ER Marriage Intensive?
1-Consider the cost of the emotional strain from marital problems on your mental and physical health plus the impact it has on your work.
2-Consider the average cost of divorce is around $15,000, plus alimony if there are kids, plus losing 50% of all your assets, which could be hundreds of thousands.
3-If you were to purchase all the resources provided through ER separately, it would cost over $10,000. However, the cost of ER is $2997. Plus, you can set up installments during checkout by selecting "Afterpay" for $250/month.
4-Some couples have used their Health Savings Account or Flexible Spending Account to help pay for ER. Also, you may be able to receive partial insurance reimbursement for the weekly classes with Dr. Wyatt since they can be classified under group therapy.
4 Reasons Why Enrolling In ER Is A Wise Investment
1-So you can break the patterns in your family of divorce and develop a successful relationship.
2-So you can create a solid home for your children, regardless of their age, because a healthy marriage is the best gift for your children.
3-So you can become happier in your marriage because being happily married will impact every other area of your life.
4-So you can invest in your marriage like you have other things in your life to make it successful, like your career.
3 Common Objections and Answers to Enrolling in the ER Marriage Intensive
1-We've tried couples therapy before, and it didn't work for us.
This is not typical couples therapy because of the robust blend of resources plus it is skill based not feelings based. You need the right tools to have a successful marriage and ER will train you in them until they become your new normal.
2-Our schedules are too busy for ER.
Not making your marriage a priority is probably the exact reason why you’re having problems. You must carve out regular time for your marriage if you want it to improve.
3-We can't afford it.
Remember if your marriage heads to divorce the cost could be 100X greater. Also, the cost of ER is probably a fraction of what you spent to have a great wedding. Invest in ER to also have a great marriage!
Refund Policy: You may get a full refund within 14 days after the first class if you're unhappy with ER for any reason.
FAQ
1-What's your success rate for couples going through ER? If both couples are teachable and putting in effort, our success rate is 90% and above.
2-What happens after I enroll? Once you enroll, you'll receive an email within 24 hours with the link into Dr. Wyatt's live weekly class and the ER Manual. You'll also receive an email from your master coach to set up your first appointment. Please check your spam folder in case the emails go there.
3-How much time does ER require each week? The time commitment is around 3 hours per week, which gives you enough time to attend class, do your required reading, and have your private session with your master coach.
4-Does my partner have to do the intensive with me? No. You're welcome to do ER on your own. The more you change, the more you will inspire your partner to change too. Working on yourself is all you can control.
5-What happens during the twelve 90 minute classes? In the live classes with Dr. Wyatt you'll learn all the core skills and tools needed to heal, rebuild, and sustain a lasting marriage.
6-What happens during the eight 45-minute sessions with our master coach? These sessions are designed to help you and your partner resolve your resentments one at a time. All sessions are virtual and will be scheduled between you and your coach depending on what time works best for both of you.
7-What qualifications do the master coaches have? Each coach is a Certified Relationship Coach and has been through Dr. Wyatt's extensive ICF Accredited Training. They also meet with Dr. Wyatt weekly for supervision and have been working with couples for years.
8-What's the difference between Dr. Wyatt's marriage retreat and ER? The marriage retreat covers everything you'll learn over the 12 weeks of live classes in one day. It's a wonderful summary to help you relearn all the information and retain it.
9-Is this intensive helpful if we have experienced infidelity? If your relationship has experienced infidelity, please go through our Affair Recovery Program first and then go through ER second.
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