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The problem is couples have unresolved resentments that prevent emotional and physical intimacy. Once that pattern becomes entrenched, hopelessness sets in, conflicts increase, and more resentments occur, creating a vicious cycle.
I know how this feels because my marriage used to be the same. I used to have a lot of resentments and felt out of love with my wife. However, I also know how it feels to heal those resentments and fall back in love and now I've helped thousands of couples do the same.
The solution is my ER marriage intensive!
In it, I will teach you step by step how to heal your resentments and rekindle your love in 90 days.
Are you tired of feeling like roommates?
Are you ready to go all in?
Join my most comprehensive resource ER to fill your marriage with hope, love, and intimacy.
What is a marriage intensive?
A marriage intensive is a condensed, high impact support to help couples make significant progress in their relationship in a short amount of time.
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4 Ways To Know If You Need A Marriage Intensive
1-You're feeling hopeless because change is not happening.
2-You're feeling alone because of unresolved resentments, walls, and needs not being met.
3-You're feeling lost because you don't know where to start to improve things.
4-You're feeling numb from the combination of feeling hopeless, alone, and lost, resulting in feeling like roommates not lovers.
What are other couples saying about the ER Marriage Intensive?
"It was so informative. Learning about the seasons of marriage was very helpful. I would recommend this to anyone, no matter what season you are in." N.D.-previous attendant
"This was an amazing experience for me and my husband. Was easy to follow, entertaining and educational. We will forever use the tools we learned from this intensive. Our marriage wasn’t “in trouble” we just wanted a “refresh” after 11 years together and 5 years of marriage. Highly recommend it to any couple. It will change your marriage if you adopt the tools!" S.N.-previous attendant
"My husband and I were able to receive tips and encouragement from the comfort of our home. I appreciate you giving personal examples of challenges in your marriage. It helped us to connect with you, allowing us to open our hearts and mind. You were transparent and relatable. The format was easy to understand. Dr. Wyatt, thank you!" B.R. previous attendant
"My husband and I have a good, solid marriage, and we want to keep it that way! We try to attend marriage intensives every few years! We love working on our marriage and showing our kids how amazing marriage can be! Thank you Dr. Wyatt for a great resource for my husband and I! Loved it!" R.C.-previous attendant
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3 Things You'll Experience In ER
1-You’ll stop feeling alone in your marital strain because of the high-level of support provided.
2-You’ll start feeling hope from the skills you’ll learn on how to do marriage right.
3-You’ll start feeling like lovers instead of roommates as you resolve your resentments and rekindle your love.
7 Things You'll Gain In The ER Marriage Intensive
1-You'll learn how to increase your commitment to marriage.
This will also include understanding the seasons of marriage, how marriage is a living organism, and how marriage is the ultimate refinement tool.
2-You'll learn how to own your part to the vicious cycles in your relationship to improve your communication.
Enough of the blame game. You'll learn how you're contributing to the issues in your relationship and how to take ownership for those behaviors. You'll also learn an effective tool to give and receive constructive feedback without defensiveness.
3-You'll learn how to share power on decisions to feel like a team.
Sharing power means both you and your partner have an equal voice on all decisions that impact your marriage. Wouldn't that be nice? You'll learn skills to facilitate decision making so both you and your partner feel heard.
4-You'll learn how to resolve resentments and conflicts.
Nothing else goes well in your marriage when there are active resentments. Therefore, you'll learn tools for resolving your resentments and conflicts. You'll learn the tools in ER, then in your individual sessions with your master coach you'll work through your resentments one by one.
5-You'll learn the keys to emotional intimacy.
Emotional intimacy is a top need usually for at least one partner. But how do you develop it? What does emotional intimacy even mean? You'll learn the answers to these questions along with concrete tools to become more emotionally connected and supportive of one another.
6-You'll learn how to maximize sexual intimacy.
Regular sexual contact is important for a healthy marriage, regardless of your libido, because it's important for emotional and physical bonding. You'll learn keys to enhancing this area of your marriage.
7-You'll learn how to stay in love.
Couples often think if they fall out of love the relationship is over. It's not. It's only over once both partners give up. The goal is learning how to stay in love and you'll learn the most effective tool for doing so.
Who teaches the ER Marriage Intensive?
I'm Dr. Wyatt Fisher and I'm the creator of the ER marriage intensive. I have a master's and doctorate in clinical psychology, I'm a licensed psychologist, and I've been in private practice since 2004 specializing in marriage counseling in Boulder, CO. I'm also the author of the Total Marriage Refresh marriage book and developer of the Keep the Glow couples app. To learn more about me click here.
LISTEN TO MY MARRIAGE PODCAST HERE!
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If you're ready to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, enroll below!
8 Things You'll Receive In The ER Marriage Intensive
1-Twelve 90-minute modules where you’ll learn all the tools needed for a successful marriage to work through at your own pace.
2-Seventy-one page pdf with all material from the modules included.
3-Live group calls with me once a week for 45 minutes to answer all your questions and concerns.
4-Twelve 45-minute sessions with your master relationship coach to help you and your partner resolve your resentments.
5-Private Facebook group for community with other couples also going through ER.
6-Lifetime access to the modules, the private Facebook group, and live weekly group calls with me for ongoing support.
7-FREE tickets to my live marriage retreat in TX , my marriage retreat in CO, or my marriage retreat in Florida.
8-FREE access into my Affair Recovery Program if your marriage has experienced infidelity.
How much is the ER Marriage Intensive?
1-Consider the cost of the emotional strain from marital problems on your mental and physical health plus the impact it has on your work.
2-Consider the average cost of divorce is around $15,000, plus alimony if there are kids, plus losing 50% of all your assets, which could be hundreds of thousands.
3-If you were to purchase all the resources provided through ER separately, it would cost over $10,000. However, the cost of ER is only $2997.
4-Some couples have used their Health Savings Account, Flexible Spending Account, or EAP program for some of the cost.
5-Plus, you can set up installments by selecting "Afterpay" during checkout for as low as $260/month. You also can select "Paypal" for installments.
3 Common Objections and Answers to Enrolling in the ER Marriage Intensive
1-We've tried couples therapy before, and it didn't work for us.
This is not typical couples therapy because of the robust blend of resources plus it is skill based not feelings based. You need the right tools to have a successful marriage and ER will train you in them until they become your new normal.
2-Our schedules are too busy for ER.
Not making your marriage a priority is probably the exact reason why you’re having problems. Plus, you can work through the modules and schedule your sessions at your own pace.
3-We can't afford it.
Remember if your marriage heads to divorce the cost could be 100X greater. Also, the cost of ER is probably a fraction of what you spent to have a great wedding. Invest in ER to have a great marriage! Where you put your dollars reflects what you value. Put your marriage first by enrolling in ER!
Book a free Zoom call below with a member of our team to learn more about ER and receive a $250 discount!
If you're ready to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, enroll below!
Refund Policy: You may get a full refund within 14 days after your purchase date if you're unhappy with ER for any reason.
FAQ
1-What's your success rate for couples going through ER? If both couples are teachable and putting in effort, our success rate is 90% and above.
2-What happens after I enroll? Once you enroll, you'll receive four emails within 24 hours. One granting you access into the ER Marriage Intensive through Kajabi where you'll find all the modules. One including the link into Dr. Wyatt's live weekly group calls and the ER Manual. One from your master coach to set up your first appointment. Finally, you'll receive an invite email into the private Facebook group. Please check your spam folder in case the emails go there.
3-How much time does ER require each week? The ideal time commitment is 3 hours per week, which gives you enough time to work through one module, have your individual session with your master coach, and your group call with Dr. Wyatt. However, you can spread out your work on the modules and your coaching sessions to whatever pace matches your schedule.
4-Does my partner have to do the intensive with me? No. You're welcome to do ER on your own. The more you change, the more you will inspire your partner to change too. Also, the more you change the more hope your partner will feel to keep working on the relationship. Working on yourself is all you can control. Become the change you want to see in your marriage!
5-What happens during the twelve 90 minute modules? In the modules you'll learn all the core skills and tools needed to heal, rebuild, and sustain a lasting marriage. The modules are the curriculum of ER.
6-What happens during the twelve 45-minute coaching sessions and when are they? These sessions are where your master coach will provide individualized support to guide you and your partner through resolving your resentments. All sessions are virtual and will be scheduled between you and your coach depending on what time works best for both of you.
7-What qualifications do the master coaches have? Each one is a Certified Relationship Coach and has been through Dr. Wyatt's extensive ICF Accredited training. They also meet with Dr. Wyatt weekly for supervision and have been working with couples for years.
8-What happens during Dr. Wyatt's live weekly group calls and when are they? These 45 minute group calls are where you can ask Dr. Wyatt any questions about your marriage and the tools you're learning in the modules. The Zoom calls are Wednesdays from 12-12:45pm MST.
9-What's your philosophy on helping couples? Our philosophy is helping couples resolve their resentments and rekindle their love through practical tools.
10-What's the difference between Dr. Wyatt's marriage retreat and ER? The marriage retreat is a wonderful one-day experience with a lot of helpful information. In contrast, ER is a three-month program for deep transformation and long-term retention of all the skills.
11-What if ER doesn't work for us? You can receive a full refund within 2 weeks after purchase if you're unhappy with ER for any reason. After that, you're unable to receive any refund. However, remember you have lifetime access to the modules, FB group, and live group calls with Dr. Wyatt so you can continue to learn and grow relationally with or without your partner.
12-Is this intensive helpful if we have experienced infidelity? Yes because it includes Dr. Wyatt's Affair Recovery Program. It's recommended to go through the Affair Recovery Program first and then go through the twelve ER modules second.