Marriage Intensive ER {Best 2025}
The problem is couples have unresolved resentments that prevent emotional and physical intimacy. Once that pattern becomes entrenched, hopelessness sets in, conflicts increase, and more resentments occur, creating a vicious cycle.
I know how this feels because my marriage used to be the same. I used to have a lot of resentments and felt out of love with my wife. However, I also know how it feels to heal those resentments and fall back in love and now I've helped thousands of couples do the same.
The solution is my ER Marriage Intensive!
In it, I will teach you step by step how to heal your resentments and rekindle your love in 90 days.
Are you tired of feeling like roommates?
Are you ready to go all in?
Join my most comprehensive resource ER to fill your marriage with hope, love, and intimacy.
What is a marriage intensive?
A marriage intensive is a concentrated approach to marriage counseling that helps couples make significant progress in less time by helping them work through their resentments.
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4 Ways To Know If You Need A Marriage Intensive
1-You're feeling hopeless because change is not happening.
2-You're feeling alone because of unresolved resentments, walls, and needs not being met.
3-You're feeling lost because you don't know where to start to improve things.
4-You're feeling numb from the combination of feeling hopeless, alone, and lost.
4 Reasons To Enroll In A Marriage Intensive
1-To learn concrete tools and skills to improve your marriage.
2-To receive training on how to build a successful marriage just like you've received training on how to become successful in your career.
3-To experience quick progress because marriage intensives provide concentrated support.
4-To resolve your resentments and rekindle your love so you can start feeling like lovers rather than roommates.
Here's a list of the best marriage intensives in the US for you to make an informed decision.
What are other couples saying about the ER Marriage Intensive?
"It was so informative. Learning about the seasons of marriage was very helpful. I would recommend this to anyone, no matter what season you are in." N.D.-previous attendant
"This was an amazing experience for me and my husband. Was easy to follow, entertaining and educational. We will forever use the tools we learned from this intensive. Our marriage wasn’t “in trouble” we just wanted a “refresh” after 11 years together and 5 years of marriage. Highly recommend it to any couple. It will change your marriage if you adopt the tools!" S.N.-previous attendant
"My husband and I were able to receive tips and encouragement from the comfort of our home. I appreciate you giving personal examples of challenges in your marriage. It helped us to connect with you, allowing us to open our hearts and mind. You were transparent and relatable. The format was easy to understand. Dr. Wyatt, thank you!" B.R. previous attendant
"My husband and I have a good, solid marriage, and we want to keep it that way! We try to attend marriage intensives every few years! We love working on our marriage and showing our kids how amazing marriage can be! Thank you Dr. Wyatt for a great resource for my husband and I! Loved it!" R.C.-previous attendant
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What makes our ER Marriage Intensive Unique?
1-Led By A Licensed Psychologist
ER is led by a Licensed Psychologist (me) who has a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology with over 20 years of experience in private practice working with couples. In addition, my own marriage has been to the brink of divorce and back so I help couples from both a personal and professional perspective. Other intensives are often led by clinicians who aren't as educated or experienced and can't relate to couples personally.
2-Skills Focus vs. Feelings Focus
The ER Marriage Intensive trains couples on concrete tools to rebuild their relationship from the ground up. Other intensives only focus on processing feelings, which often leaves couples unclear on how to move forward.
3-Three Month Program vs 2-3 Days
ER is a 3 month program to help couples make deep and lasting transformation. Other intensives are only 2-3 days, making it much more difficult for couples to retain their progress long-term.
4-Multiple Levels Of Support vs One
The ER Marriage Intensive is highly effective because it provides six layers of support that are flexible for scheduling and accommodating to various learning styles. Other intensives only provide one level of support.
5-Live Marriage Retreat
The ER Marriage Intensive also includes free tickets to my leading marriage retreat in Florida 2/23/25, Colorado 3/29/25, and Texas 4/27/25 to give your relationship undivided attention to breathe new life back into it. Learn more by clicking the links below.
What will you gain in the ER Marriage Intensive?
1-You'll learn how to increase your commitment to marriage.
This will also include understanding the seasons of marriage, how marriage is a living organism, and how marriage is the ultimate refinement tool.
2-You'll learn how to own your part to the vicious cycles in your relationship to improve your communication.
Enough of the blame game. You'll learn how you're contributing to the issues in your relationship and how to take ownership for those behaviors. You'll also learn an effective tool to give and receive constructive feedback without defensiveness.
3-You'll learn how to share power on decisions to feel like a team.
Sharing power means both you and your partner have an equal voice on all decisions that impact your marriage. Wouldn't that be nice? You'll learn skills to facilitate decision making so both you and your partner feel heard.
4-You'll learn how to resolve resentments and conflicts.
Nothing else goes well in your marriage when there are active resentments. Therefore, you'll learn tools for resolving your resentments and conflicts. You'll learn the tools in ER, then in your individual sessions with your master coach you'll work through your resentments one by one.
5-You'll learn the keys to emotional intimacy.
Emotional intimacy is a top need usually for at least one partner. But how do you develop it? What does emotional intimacy even mean? You'll learn the answers to these questions along with concrete tools to become more emotionally connected and supportive of one another.
6-You'll learn how to maximize sexual intimacy.
Regular sexual contact is important for a healthy marriage, regardless of your libido, because it's important for emotional and physical bonding. You'll learn keys to enhancing this area of your marriage.
7-You'll learn how to stay in love.
Couples often think if they fall out of love the relationship is over. It's not. It's only over once both partners give up. The goal is learning how to stay in love and you'll learn the most effective tool for doing so.
Who teaches the ER Marriage Intensive?
I'm Dr. Wyatt Fisher and I'm the creator of the ER marriage intensive. I have a Master's and Doctorate in Clinical Psychology, I'm a Licensed Psychologist, and I've been in private practice since 2004 specializing in marriage counseling in Boulder, CO. I'm also the author of the Total Marriage Refresh marriage book and developer of the Keep the Glow couples app. To learn more about me click here.
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What will you receive in the ER Marriage Intensive?
1-Forty-Five Minute Appointment With Me For Direct Feedback
You'll receive a 45-minute session with me for direct feedback on your marriage. This is a virtual appointment and will be scheduled after enrollment based on what works for both of our schedules.
2-Two Half-Day Intensives With Your Master Coach To Resolve Resentments
You'll receive two half-day intensives with your Master Relationship Coach to help you and your partner resolve your resentments. Resolving resentments is the first step to improving your marriage. These are virtual appointments and will be scheduled after enrollment based on what works for both you and your coach.
3-Twelve 45-Minute Group Meetings With Me For Ongoing Support
You'll receive twelve 45-minute group meetings with me for mentorship to ask questions and practice the new tools you'll be learning. These meetings are virtual and are Tuesdays from 12-12:45 MST.
4-Tickets To My Live Marriage Retreat For Concentrated Quality Time
You'll receive tickets to my live marriage retreat in Florida, Colorado, or Texas to have concentrated quality time together while learning key steps to improve your relationship along with my support throughout the day.
5-Access To My Exclusive Twelve 90-Minute Modules To Learn All My Tools
You'll receive access to my exclusive twelve 90-minute modules packed with all the tools you need to build a successful marriage. This also includes a seventy-one page PDF covering all the material in the modules. These modules are online and can be worked through at your own pace.
6-Access to My Private FB Group For Community
You'll receive access to my private FB Group with other ER couples to build community so you don't feel alone in your marital journey.
7-FREE Month In My Marriage Membership
After you complete the three months of ER, you'll receive one free month in my Marriage Membership to continue your access to the 12 modules, the FB Group, and my weekly mentorship meetings. The cost of the Marriage Membership is $199/month and I can provide a superbill at the end of each month for you to submit to insurance for reimbursement.
How much is the ER Marriage Intensive?
1-Consider the cost of the emotional strain from marital problems on your mental and physical health plus the impact it has on your work.
2-Consider the average cost of divorce is around $15,000, plus alimony if there are kids, plus losing 50% of all your assets, which could be hundreds of thousands.
3-The cost of ER is $2997. Plus, you can set up installments during checkout by selecting "Klarna" for $153/month. Some couples have used their Health Savings Account or Flexible Spending Account to pay for ER. Also, I can provide a superbill for you to submit to insurance for reimbursement on $1400 of the ER cost once you complete it.
4 Reasons Why Enrolling In ER Is A Wise Investment
1-So you can break the patterns in your family of divorce and develop a successful relationship.
2-So you can create a solid home for your children, regardless of their age, because a healthy marriage is the best gift for your children.
3-So you can become happier in your marriage because being happily married will impact every other area of your life.
4-So you can invest in your marriage like you have other things in your life to make it successful, like your career.
3 Common Objections and Answers to Enrolling in the ER Marriage Intensive
1-We've tried couples therapy before, and it didn't work for us.
This is not typical couples therapy because of the robust blend of support plus it is skill based not feelings based. You need the right tools to have a successful marriage and ER will train you in them until they become your new normal.
2-Our schedules are too busy for ER.
Not making your marriage a priority is probably the exact reason why you’re having problems. You must carve out regular time for your marriage if you want it to improve. Plus, most of the support can be scheduled during times that work best for you.
3-We can't afford it.
Remember if your marriage heads to divorce the cost could be 100X greater. Also, the cost of ER is probably a fraction of what you spent to have a great wedding. Invest in ER to also have a great marriage! Also, you can set up payments for as low as $153/month by selecting "Klarna" during checkout and half the cost of ER can be submitted to insurance for reimbursement.
Refund Policy: You may get a full refund within 14 days after purchase if you're unhappy with ER for any reason.
FAQ
1-What's your success rate for couples going through ER? If both couples are teachable and putting in effort, my success rate is 90% and above.
2-What happens after I enroll? Once you enroll, you'll receive an email within 24 hours with directions on how to schedule our 45-minute session, how to join my 12 weekly mentorship meetings, and directions on how to access the 12 modules. Second, you'll receive an email from your Master Coach to set up your first half-day intensive. Third, you'll receive an email from FB to join my private group. Please check your spam folder in case the emails go there.
3-How much time does ER require each week? The time commitment is around 2 hours per week, which gives you enough time to attend the weekly 45-minute mentorship meeting with me and work through one 90-minute module. You'll also need to carve out time for two half-day intensives with your Master Coach, which can be scheduled at whatever time works for both you and your coach.
4-What happens during the 45-minute appointment with Dr. Wyatt? This session provides time for me to learn about the top problems in your relationship so I can give direct feedback for support.
5-What happens during the two half-day intensives? These half-day intensives with your Master Coach are designed to help you and your partner resolve your resentments with individualized support because nothing goes well in a relationship when there are active resentments.
6-What qualifications do the master coaches have? Each coach is a Certified Relationship Coach and has been through my extensive ICF Accredited Training. They also meet with me weekly for supervision and have been working with couples for years.
7-What happens during the weekly group mentorship meetings with Dr. Wyatt? These meetings provide opportunity to ask me any questions you have about your relationship and time to practice the tools so you can develop competence.
8-What will I learn in the twelve 90-minute modules? In the modules, you'll learn all the vital tools and skills needed to build a successful marriage. The modules include time to discuss the content with your partner for application too. The modules are online and can be worked through at your own pace.
9-Should I go through ER or work with Dr. Wyatt in his practice? ER is the better path because it's more flexible to fit your schedule, it's more affordable to save you money, and it's more comprehensive to make quicker progress and to accommodate various learning styles.
10-What's the difference between Dr. Wyatt's marriage retreat and ER? My marriage retreat covers everything you'll learn in the 12 modules in one day. It's a wonderful summary to help you relearn all the information and retain it.
11-Does my partner have to do the intensive with me? While ER is designed for couples where both partners who want to improve their marriage, you're welcome to do ER on your own too. The more you change, the more you will inspire your partner to change too. Working on yourself is all you can control.
12-Is this intensive helpful if we have experienced infidelity? If your relationship has experienced infidelity, please go through my Affair Recovery Program first and then go through ER second to make sure proper healing from the affair is in place.
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